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Month: July 2026

Mock wine bottle showing a warning label about sulphites but no warnings about causing cancer

Where are the warning labels?

Posted on July 23, 2026July 23, 2026 by EpiphVany

This isn’t really about labels. Labels are just the visible part. Product labels tell you the important things. The part that says, publicly and without apology: This product carries risk. For years, blinded by alcohol culture, I smoothed over information. Even as a cancer survivor, I smoothed over the cancer warnings. I’d see headlines saying…

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She Found Him Passed Out Behind the Beer Store

Posted on July 20, 2026July 20, 2026 by EpiphVany

After my son was found passed out behind a beer store, I found myself thinking about a social media comment that blamed parents for alcohol use disorder. The reality is far more complicated. Genetics, ADHD, emotional pain, life experiences, alcohol itself, and countless other factors shape vulnerability to addiction. This is a reflection on relapse, grief, and why blame rarely helps anyone.

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The thing is, “about to fall” and “just fell” sound about the same. So for now I can live in the illusion that he was about to fall, but stopped himself.

While It Was Still Hopeful

Posted on July 18, 2026July 18, 2026 by EpiphVany

Just when I start to believe everything might be OK, I find evidence suggesting I should have waited a little longer. Living with a loved one’s AUD means learning to navigate the space between hope and fear, while imagining a future where alcohol is no longer woven into every social expectation.

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Did you know even if you only get “Hammered” occasionally DAMAGE still happens to your heart, liver, brain, and immune system quietly, over time Too many people don't know, Time to Change the Conversation

Did YOU know?

Posted on July 2, 2026August 9, 2026 by EpiphVany

There’s usually a lot to unpack in a product label. Sometimes, such as when the product is a drug or supplement, there isn’t enough room on the label to list all the side effects and interactions so it spills over into a little pamphlet with tiny writing that you have to magnify to understand. Alcohol,…

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  • August 2, 2026 I Would Rather Have Been Wrong
  • July 23, 2026 Where are the warning labels?
  • July 20, 2026 She Found Him Passed Out Behind the Beer Store
  • July 18, 2026 While It Was Still Hopeful
  • July 2, 2026 Did YOU know?
  • June 30, 2026 Holding the Line

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